Now back to your regularly scheduled thread...
Jadey and KappaTarzan, you're right on. The sex has to last just long enough - not so short as to be unsatisfying to one partner or the other, and not so long as to become boring or painful. Like the Three Bears - it has to be juuuust right
What annoys me is when he holds out on his orgasm just to make the sex itself last longer... there's something to be said for being a gentleman, "ladies first", but sometimes I would rather he come and then find some other way to please me...
damn, did I just type that???
