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It is a shame that things haven't worked out for you. Although there will always be sisters you don't get along with (tell the truth everyone!) there are ties that bind us all together in sisterhood and we understand and find much of it in our rituals.
As for changing shapters.....usually the initiating chapter has to okay you to affliate and then the other chapter does not necessarily have to accept you----you have to be invited by the new chapter. So....trying to initiate and then transfer doesn't always work out----but most of the time everyone is okay with the process.
I have always heard that if you accept any bid from a NPC group and then leave (or decline a formal bid) no matter where, you always had to wait a calendar year to accept a different group. If so, that's better than leaving after initiated and then never being able to accept anywhere else. You're fortuate that you want to join the same group elsewhere, just as long as they want to join.
I hope you find the place for you wherever it is.
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