[poodleNtraining]

Blue, I know how the whole all-of-a-sudden break up goes, and like everybody has already said, take time to pray, cry your eyes out for a minute, then get up and move on to do something else. Take all the momentoes and either throw them away, or put them in a box, seal it, and put it on the highest shelf in your house. Don't EVER look at it again until you have completely moved on, forgiven him, and found TRUE TRUE love. Then, and only then will you be strong enough to look at it without crumbling, trust me. But in the meantime, go get a facial, massage, manicure and pedicure, and brand new hairdo. This will help you feel better, at least a little. It will give your self-esteem a little umph. And remember, him leaving you was HIS lost, not yours. Anyone to throw that away isn't worth your time and energy. I had to learn that the hard way. And it really is true! And don't date until you're ok (for the most part!) with being single again. That way you won't subconciously throw all your old feelings into the next man walking down the street,a nd you'll know that your feelings for the new person are for the new person and not just because you're lonely!

I hope everything goes good for you!!!!!!!!