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Originally posted by bluethunder
i've been praying about it, but is there any advice for how i can fill my time without thinking about this? (y'all know a soror is HURTING in florida!)
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Blue thunder, the Bible says "Pray and watch" which I have always taken to mean, yes pray, but also do something. My advice to you would be to put the letters, cards, pictures and other mementos in a box in some place that you cannot easily get to. It does not help to keep reminding your self of the good times you had together.
Find a trusted friend that you can grieve with for a while. Give your self time to cry, etc., but don't stay in that pity party for too long.
Keep BUSY!! Find time to occupy your time outside of the house. Sitting at home by yourself will only make you think of him and want to call him.
And last but not least, don't try to get back in the dating game too soon. Take your time to see learn about yourself, assess the relationship and what you want for the future.
Be Blessed