Don' t you get it? you will never get a straight an honest answer from a greek in a PUBLIC forum. To whoever said that the priority of Jill should be to focus on his grade, well it never occured to you that it is BECAUSE he is worried about his grades, that he wants to know to the extend of what pledging will destroy his GPA? And that is a reality. That's why you have greeks that change major, defer grade and never graduate, all because of hazing.