duing the pledge process it's a very slow on the hazing thing. they give you rules and regulations that are moderate from the beginning, but they increase as your time progresses and the amount of time you put into the frat increases. therefore, you won't wanto to de-pledge after all of the work you have done for them. therefore, you will actually do the stupid stuff that they ask you. i know first hand b/c i am in a fraternity. I do not know of ANY fraternity that does not haze, whether they admit it or not. it's a matter of how bad you want to be a brother! that's the point of pledging and that is to show how much these brothers are worth.