KDOnline:
I wasn't saying the pictures weren't bad enough..I was saying that...Yes, these pictures have come into the spotlight and it does look "bad" for the Greek community, but it's not as bad as doing something horrible like rape etc. This is more of a prank than a crime. Do you see what I mean>?
And I know that rapes happen at UF, I wasn't saying that they didn't, I was just referring to the most recent one I knew of, which was at Stetson where one of my best friends is a Tri-Delt.
And I never said that this type of behavior prevents rapes...
I understand you're anger about these events as an alumni who gives money and free-time to your former college, but in all fairness there are a lot of activities that go on in sororities, KD included, and the rest of the school...IE drinking and other things that I won't name so I don't stir up anyone else., that you probably wouldn't be too happy about..... I just think that everyone is blaming Sigma Chi when all they did was have their annual event, slightly toned down from last year, and have gotten into a lot of trouble for pulling some silly pranks that most of the girls were well aware of in the beginning. I guess I think it is sort of like going to a haunted house and then coming out of it all mad because you got scared...
Yes, you went to school here once and I'm sure there are a few things you did in the spirit of "just being in college and free to do what you want!" But maybe I'm wrong, and if I am , then sorry for assuming...because you know what assuming can do
Seriously though, these girls knew what they were getting into. Sigma Chi's are so great here at UF. They are very sweet and just all around awesome guys who once a year like to get down and dirty and go a little crazy. It's like Halloween for them or something. And really, it's such a great party!
I am sure there are girls who go into therapy for the humiliation they experience in college...but to put this in perspective. I bet the number of girls in therapy from getting dropped from every house at rush are a lot higher than the one who go into therapy from being "humiliated" at Bikers and Babes...
I guess our opinions on what constitutes humiliation are different...I don't think getting crazy and "bobbing for dildos" as a volunteer could be all that humiliating, but as you are older and wiser...I could probably learn a thing or two from you.
I guess to sum all this up...I think college is about making mistakes and doing crazy stuff that you would never be able to get away with when you are older...I'm sorry you have had to post so much on this but I hope we can just agree to disagree because I believe the age gap might be one of the reasons for our differing opinions...