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librasoul's right.
Don't ask "am I fat? be honest" if you don't want people to be honest!! that's just fishing for compliments that people don't really mean. champ is being kind of a jerk about it, but that's his honest opinion.
The only person you have to please is you. If you are unhappy with your appearance, do something about it...eat healthier and exercise - because you want to, not because friends, boys or society tells you to. And above all don't get an image of yourself as a "fat person" - self-image is contagioius.
When I was a teenager I was convinced my nose was too big...I kept verbalizing this to my friends...eventually they started cracking jokes about the size of my nose. It was my fault, I did it to myself! No one would have ever noticed it if I hadn't brought it up. So make sure you aren't making it harder on yourself.
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