Although I do not condone senseless hazing or abuse to anyone in any frat/soror., I think we need to stop judging those who haze and have been hazed. Every organization has their own process's that they put GDI's through for membership. Whether it be a paper process or whether they travel the sands each has the same goal.

What Charle and his LB's did to get their letter's apparently brought them together as a unit. Again whether his process was right or wrong, doesn't matter because in their view, and in their chapter's view they were made right. His frat. may overtly outlaw whatever process he went thru, but in reality it is a process that supported by most in his frat. If it weren't they would shut down UG's all together.

Let me make one other point. It appears from reading the past posts, that some have exonerated those who are undergoing their process or being pledged from any wrong doing. I feel that any aspirant who is interested in joining an organization, particularly a BGLO, knows the deal before they undertake the process. Any BGLO member who disagree's with that is being unrealistic. Unfortunately, many expect their process to be tough based on rumors and movies. Every chapter in a frat./soror. does things differently. Some make it easy and some make it hard it's all up to that chapter.

I think we need to stop looking at this from a one-sided point of view and look at Charle's side for moment and understand why he feel's the way he does.

Peace!!!