[kddani]

SuthrnBelle, i'm really sorry that your life has been so sheltered. I'm hoping that you're young (freshman) and that your four or more years of college will help open up your eyes a bit.

So it doesn't bother your daddy that there are blacks and homosexual/bisexual members in other chapters of your sorority, as long as they're not in your chapter?

What sorority are you in? I guarantee you that there are minorities as members of your sorority in southern colleges.

If your daddy did stop paying for your sorority bill, would you just up and quit? Or does your sorority mean enough to you that you would suck it up and get a job and pay for it yourself, like many many of us do?

You may want to look into your sorority's ideals a little more and maybe try to expose yourself to a more diverse group of people.

Guess what, in the real world, you'll be working with many blacks, gays, and whatever else makes you uncomfortable. Get used to it.

And for the record, my big is black and one of my littles is Filipino, there's been at least 5 different black members that have been part of my chapter (being that our total is 60, that's a fair percentage), several Asians, several hispanics, and a bisexual member. And you know what? We've become one of the strongest groups on campus.

I can't speak for NPHC groups. But speaking as a member of an NPC group, i'm very sorry that you have such closed minded views, and I really hope that that changes for you. Or else you're gonna have a tough time in life...