Charle, Military conditioning should not be confused with fraternity hazing - I was in the military as well, and I was hazed rather extensively both in boot camp and in certain ceremonies (shellback, bluenose, etc...). None of it was to the point where I truly feared for life or limb, I nevertheless was NOT impressed by the people who carried the activities out. They generally had little regard for others feelings, and took pleasure in the fact others suffered (in the ceremonies). In boot camp, well, what can I say? What happens, happens; and there are generally good reasons behind it. These reasons, however, have NO parallel to civilian, college life in my opinion.
While the military has a goal to keep you from getting killed, and making you part of the unit (indistinguishable from the other individuals) - I don't believe fraternities should do the same.
I don't personally know of any "paper" GLO's other than honor or professional societies. I agree, membership has to be earned, but then again, so does respect. Hazing is a barrier to earning respect. I hope you understand, and think the next time you get to give wood - why are you doing it? How accountable are you as a brother prepared to be if, God forbid, something goes wrong?
Peace...
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