[sororitygirl2]

I'm not going to say that you shouldn't go -- do whatever you want -- BUT...

...usually if you are thinking of hiding it, it's not as innocent as you say.

I've often hung out with guy friends when I was dating someone else, and while nothing ever happened, there was sometimes quite a bit of "innocent" flirting and I secretly loved the male attention. Some of these situations could definitely have turned dangerous at some point if circumstances were a little different.

But then, who's to say what's dangerous? I mean, you're not married and you should be allowed to have fun and hang out with guys, and sometimes you have to take risks to know what's right (this a general "you" not addressed at ChiOJenn).

*edited to add:

Oh yeah, my final advice to Jenn. Thingk about it, do what feels right and don't worry... things always work out eventually!