[lovelyivy84]

I want kids, eventually. I love children.

If I get married I will have kids. If not, then no kids- I was raised in a single parent home, and while I love my mother and think she did the best job she could do while working two jobs to make ends meet, it is not a situation that I would choose to bring a child into. If I have kids it'll be in a two parent situation.

I do not foresee myself ever undergoing the expensive and time consuming fertility treatments. There are so many wonderful black and hispanic children in the system with no one to love them that I actually really want to adopt. I would like to have a child of my own body, yes. But if I can't I won't be too broken up about it personally.

lol, my boy Ted made the comment that if/when I have kids they will be eerily good with warped senses of humour. That West Indian discipline is NO JOKE (although I will not beat my children). I could almost feel a bit sorry for them- I am fair, but strict.