I agree with what sigmagirl said. Please get your facts straight before you make assumptions. I really hope that someone talks to her and flat out ask her not only does she have a baby, but about the other things she lied about. Also I'm not sure what else she lied about
. Manipulation and lying are two different things even though both of them are wrong. I'm sure the reason why some of us are confused about your situation is that we would probably have to be in your chapter to understand.
But if you ask her to de-pledge, I hope that you all don't say it is because of your child. It seems like you all have other problems with her and the baby is the last of you troubles.