We had a similar issue and were forced to de-pledge a girl who had a child, as it is against our by-laws. The wierd thing is that she put down on her forms that she didn't have any children, and we never saw the kid until we'd already offered her a bid.

That was the least of our concerns with her, though... she turned out to be a nutjob....we'd given her a chance even though she didn't rush well, and WOW were we mistaken. I was just glad our bylaws gave us a way out of simply having to say "You're a freak, turn in your pledge manual."

She went on to pledge another sorority, who we fully warned that this girl was a freak, but they took her anyway. And wow, did they ever regret it!

Hmm... well, I guess this was less about the girl having a daughter than her being really scary. Sorry!