Great question! I spent most of my childhood in New York City, we moved when I was 13. I miss the family we left behind and I love going back there to visit, but I wouldn't call it home. I don't particularly want to go back there to live.
We moved to Tucson, and that's where my immediate family still is. I love it there, even though I only lived there for about 5 years. That's where I went on school breaks, that's where my lifelong friends are, that's where I got married, and to take a cue from lifesaver, that's the place I miss when I'm not there.
I like Los Angeles. Its where we've been living and working, and its where my in-laws are. But as much as I like it, L.A just doesn't *do* it for me. Maybe it will be different once we buy a house and have children. We'll see...I'll let you all know if I've changed my mind when that happens.
