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Originally posted by Lindz928 (in part)
There is the image issue, (how will it look to others on your campus). We also couldn't understand what she would really get out of being in a sorority. I guess it just seemed like she wouldn't have anything in common with most of the other girls. Also, why would you want to be spending so much money to join a sorority when you have a child to take care of? If I were her, I would have rather spent that money on my child. This probably all sounds very superficial to some people, but think about it.
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Okay, I've thought about it, and you're right -- It sounds very superficial. What would you have had in common? You and your sisters might have been surprised how much you had in common, how much you could have grown from having this woman as a member of your sorority, and how much you might have been able to offer her. Too bad. You may have lost out on a really great sister.
From my vantage point, there is no better image for a GLO to project than valuing true sisterhood/brotherhood above all else. Just my $0.02.