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Since the issue is not with the fact that she may have a child, but with the fact that she may have lied about it, then I suggest you step back for a minute and think through what you would do if the alleged lie was about something else that your National had no firm policy on. (i.e. said she lettered in a sport but didn't, lied about being prom queen, etc.)
Would you still feel like you want to go to the other members of your organization with the information?
If the answer is yes, then do what you feel you have to do.
But like KTSnake mentioned, I hope you take into account how much being a part of your organization must mean to her if she chose to hide something that is such a big part of her life.
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