[Kevin]

If she had said she had a child would you have chosen her over other recruits?

If she can balance the sorority and taking care of a child wouldn't that show that she is HUGELY worthy of membership (I'd hope?)

I'm just speaking from experience.. While we haven't ever had a candidate in my fraternity with a child, actually one does have a Godson that he spendsa lot of time with. It certainly doesn't detract from him being a good member.. He used to bring the kid around on weekends when he was active. Was actually pretty cool. Other members have been married and still been very productive and great brothers all around.

All I'm saying is give the girl a chance and maybe forgive a minor transgression such as that. If you can't honestly say that it wouldn't have changed your mind in her becoming a member one way or the other for her to have a child then you're on pretty shaky ground being angry about the situation.