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Stop believing people's press releases.
People don't often tell the truth when you are asking them questions. Most of the time they don't know what thee truth is.
It all depends on how much the guys is into you.
If he is really into you he'll call you back and keep asking you out whether you sleep with him on the first date or not. In fact if he's pretty into you and you sleep with him on the first date he will be half-way in love with you.
Ok lets say things go wrong and you sleep with him on the first date and then nothing happens . . . you are going to sit back and say it was a mistake and that was the reason why he didn't call.
He might even say to his friends, I banged her on the first date not GF material.
Neither is probably true. He's just not that into you. That is what makes you not GF material.
When hormones talk brain power goes out the window.
So Kilarney is right. If he really likes you he is not going to stop calling because you have sex with you, he will probably call you more.
People just have trouble dealing with the fact that most relationships don't work out and that most of the ones that do, shouldn't.
So they come up with elaborate reasons why. *shrug*
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