[phisigduchesscv]

HI PhiSigCoco,
When we were colonizing we were told that we cannot use Big/Little ever. That it is demeaning to the new members and can be considered a very subtle form of hazing. The term Sapphire Sister is used so that there isn't a verbal difference between a new member and an active sister (just like we don't use pledge anymore). Anyway, it was definitely drummed into our heads as founding sisters not to use big/little that they are Sapphire Sisters.
Carolyn