*singing like R. Kelly*
"Onnnne QUE can maaake.. oneeeee Woman HATE all QUEEEEEES"
This is a good subject just for us to share our experiences.
The only thing I'll say on this subject is that I'd hope we all would see that your Fraternal/Sorority affiliation has no bearing on your personal relationships.
as for my record:
My high school sweetheart went AKA and we almost got engaged but she undermined the trust in our relationship and I had to break it off.
A good friend of mine whose older sister is a AKA surprised everybody and went SGRho. We've been friends and have 'shared' with each other for 6+ years but have just enough differences where we've never given a relationship a shot.
I've been with one Zeta in my life.. She was a straight amazon and beautiful on the inside and out.. but, she left the area to further her career and the Long Distance thing is not for us.
I've had the great fortune of dating 4 DeviStaTing ladies of DST. For different subtile reasons, neither relationship lasted more than 2 years but all were great. Now, I JUST ATTENDED DELTA NATIONALS IN ATL THIS SUMMER.
*this is the main point I want to make*
JUST BECAUSE I HAVEN'T HAD THE RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE DELTAS lead TO MATRIMONY... and even if one didn't end on good terms..., I WOULD NEVER *EVA - EVA - EVA - EVA* "X" an entire group of dynamic, educated Women such as the : AKAs, Deltas, Zetas, SGRhos.. because on ONE or TWO or ETC bad experiences with said group of Sorors..
I'm not HAAAAARDLY trying to eliminate a group of over 100,000 highly educated Black Women from my dating pool... And I would suggest that no Black Woman eliminate and group of highly educated, driven, charming, hard body Men such as Omega Psi Phi because of a painful relationship experience in the past.
don't fugg up and lose the love of your life.
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