mtsugirl, thanx for the end of your post!
If you each are not proud enuff to wear your Colors, Letters, Association Pins, and Member Badges then just what in the hell were you joining a CLUB!?
NO, you were and are joining a Group Of People Whom YOU want to be a part of for the rest of your life! TRUE?
If not get out! It is called "GTFO".
How do you as a member promote YOUR Org?
You are not a You anymore, You are a we! Do not ever forget that! Or have you already done that? This not to the New Members, but the old ones!
Are each of you in the catagory of Hands or Ass
Only You can make that decision! Oui?