Oh honey.........I really do know how you feel. The thing is, instead of asking if I would mind if he dated a "sister"-he asked for my BED!
It was a really cheap matress on the floor. I was getting a new one in a mater of days. STILL! It absolutely BROKE my heart. We had dated for about 3 months but he moved on as I was too "conservative".THEN, he went to FLorida and met someone... Talk about a bummer.
Now, the good part- when Hubby and I decided to get married, he came on hand and knees and...a few tears. It was too late.
(Well, actually I always wanted my hubby we just had a LOT of lengthy breakups.)
The point is, things are always changing and just because you are hurting today, doesn't mean that tomorrow you won't find your happiness. It does hurt like hell for now, but I PROMISE you, it won't hurt like this for too long.
The Need (Thirty-six)
Rod Mckuen
"Its nice sometimes
to open up the heart a little
and let some hurt come in.
It prooves you're still alive."