Thanks AXO Alum. It is a tough situation, but I think what makes it tougher is that I take their shunning personally because it's my chapter, and I have to learn to just let that crap roll off of my back. I am not personally responsible for "saving" the chapter. I left my chapter in perfectly capable hands when I graduated, and if they've recruited members that aren't up to par, then it is my job to help them get up to par, and to find new women that are up to the challenges of the sorority.
Thank you all for your help. Keep it coming