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I just want to make sure everyone knows that there are chapters of OPA where sisterhood is VERY important, my chapter being one of them. I've gotten fairly close to the girls in my chapter just in the past month. I can call any one of them up and they'll be here in a split second. The actives call me often to see how I am, if I want to hang out, to see how my day's been, etc. Our pledge class is extremely close. (One of them is my roommate.) We try and have sisterhood events at least every other week. On top of that, we have our service projects, we spend time together outside of sorority events/meetings, and I have the BEST big sister in the world. We have a small chapter, so maybe it's just easier for us than it is for the larger ones. Although that's kind of hard for me to believe with the huge sororities having such awesome sisterhoods themsleves. We don't have any girls who are in social sororities (by their own choice), but when I brought up the possibility of rushing the NPC sororities, the local or the Christian sorority in addition to OPA, they were 100% behind me and even encouraged me. (I haven't rushed the NPC, local or Christian sororities yet. Verdict's still out on that one...)
If the majority of the women in a chapter don't like each other, or aren't committed to OPA, of course there isn't going to BE anything resembling sisterhood.

OPAGal, I hope that your sisters that have hurt you and your little can see where they've been wrong and can fix it. I hate to see people misrepresenting the sorority I've come to love so quickly. You're in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you find a group that offers you the sisterhood you deserve and will be at home in!