SoRHOr Ninja Poodle, I'm really happy for you. I liked how you didn't chase him and act eager to meet just anybody. You just played it cool without looking for someone, and a nice guy that you like fell right in your lap. My philosophy has always been to not go out seeking a man because you usually find trash when you're looking.
SoRHOr HolyGhost7, EXCELLENT advice!
When you're not with someone, that is the best time to work on YOU. I learned from a Singles' Fellowship that the time when you're single is the most important time of your life becuase you don't have a lot of other obligations, ie husband, children, in-laws and everything else that comes with it, to take up your time. Like HolyGhost7 said, once you get things right with you, everything else will fall into place.
Last thing: I, like Soror HG, also pray about what kind of man God wants me to have. When you're praying, be specific. When your general prayer is just, "Send me a man," that's all you're going to get: a man. He won't necessarily be a kind, sensitive, intelligent, well-versed, financially stable or even a decent man. Just a man. And that's where trouble starts again. (You learn a lot of things at Bible Study.
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Lastly, I'm in your boat, too, SoRHOr Kizzie22. I'm wishing both of us luck.