About wearing letters that aren't yours:
I was made a sweetheart of Sigma Nu, and was also lavaliered by my boyfriend(also a Sigma Nu). I wore their letters, and no one ever gave me a hard time about it. I also wore my own letters, of course, but none of my sisters had a problem with me wearing my boyfriend's letters. On the contrary, whenever a girl in my sorority was made a sweetheart/little sister of a frat, or lavaliered by her boyfriend, we were happy for her! To me it was an honor that the men of Sigma Nu chose me to be a sweetheart, and we felt that way about our other sister's who were chosen as well. No one was ever beaten up-god forbid!-or given a hard time about it.
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