Sorry I'm not an A-Phi, but I think that the girl didn't understand A-Phi's pledge process. I attended the university of Northern Co. and the Alpha-Phi's allow their new members to wear block letters on bid day, whereas all the other houses do not allow new members to wear block letters until initiation which is anywhere from 6-8 weeks. I'm assuming that A-Phi's still have an inititaion process
Anyway the girl probably didn't realize that A-Phi did things differently than her house.