DeltaSigStan,
I'm glad and relieved that it was all a misunderstanding. I just wanted to say that I was at one of the sorority houses at SDSU for an alumnae dinner the collegiates hosted last night. Some guys from your chapter stopped by; they were really classy and sincere. I thought about this thread, too!
Best wishes to your chapter! I know you're working hard to get your house to the top.