I'm a missionary girl myself. I kinda like the legs on shoulders variation of that, though.
I'm pretty kinky, and I'll try just about anything once that isn't truly disgusting to me.
Anal is actually pretty nice if you do it right. Proper lubes, techniques, etc. I just don't let any guy bang away in my ass.
As for the Altoids thing, yeah, I do give and receive that way, but it's kinda hard to concentrate on where to put the mint and not swallow it...I prefer using the Burt's Bees Lip Balm...which feels and tastes like Altoids for your lips. My ex called it god's gift to man. Hehehe.
As for the big spit vs. swallow debate...I do neither. I don't want that shit in my mouth. I prefer to let him shoot it elsewhere...