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I can see why you would have been frustrated with this person. It sounds like she was trying to push your buttons and get under your skin. Some people get a sick joy out of seeing how far they can push you. The problem is that when you respond, you're giving them what they wanted all along AND, worst of all, you're coming down to their level.
The best thing to do in these situations is prove that you are the bigger person by letting it go--what better way to prove that Alpha Phis have class and style than to live it everyday?
We're Alpha Phis and we're above getting into an arguement with some silly person. You can prove you have class and dignity by saying in your sweetest voice with your most gorgeous smile, "I'm sorry you don't understand how exciting this is for me. I would certainly have been happy for you." Then walk away knowing you took the high road.
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