I think one thing I've found that hasn't helped me in the past is dwelling on broken relationships when someone you're interested in asks about them. I think it scares people off...they think either a) you haven't moved on b) you make drama out of everything or c) you are difficult to be with and perhaps you're single for a reason.
I think if you're going to reveal anything, do it bits and pieces at a time. I think it's important for people to know about your past, but not too much all at once.
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