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			I think it totally depends on what sort of secrets they are.  I mean, I would react completely differently to someone telling me, "I was in prison for the last ten years," to someone saying, "Sometimes I like to kiss girls." 
 
I think you should probably tell this friend just what you said here.  That you are a little taken aback by what she has revealed, that you want to be there for her but don't know how.  Ask her what she needs or wants from you.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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