Women,
There is a website that I go to when I need to understand the male beasties. It's askmen.com. It's good because you see how men "think", but it's bad because it's also telling men how to think and fulfilling the stereotypes and perpetuating the behavior we are SO frustrated with....
Here are two articles I want to show you. The title of the first one is Could George Costanza Succeed With Women? It's about why what's on the inside (of a MAN) is what truly matters:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove...ip_expert.html
BUT THEN, not only two links away on the SAME DAMN PAGE is an article that assures you that, once you learn what makes a gorgeous woman tick, "you'll always have a trophy by your side"!! WTF!!!!!!!!!
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove...ip_expert.html
THIS IS WHAT DRIVES US CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MOTHER FUKKER, I cannot take the message that men can look like total crap, but women have to be beautiful! IT'S ENOUGH TO DRIVE US TO DANGEROUS BEHAVIORS! OH WAIT, IT ALREADY DOES!!!!!!!!!
I know that a few posts ago, I sounded more calm, but I hate HATE conflicting arguements like the one I posted above!