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On my campus, rush is deferred until the first semester of sophmore year. Rush takes place in the middle of september and rho chis are disaffiliated for the first few weeks of the school year until right after bids are handed out. Rho chis are affiliated with their chapter for the whole school year proceeding rush so by the time a girl goes thrugh rush, she pretty much knows where her rho chi is a sister.
The important thing for me when I was a rho chi wasn't complete anonymity, although I tried as hard as I could to remain anonymous, but rather creating a comfortable atmosphere for my girls. I reassured my girls over and over again that they could tell me whatever they wanted about any chapter on campus and I would keep it completely confidential. Even though my girls figured out pretty quickly where I was a sister (on my campus, each house has a very different personality so it isn't hard to guess) they knew that they could talk to me about anything.
My point is, it's not the end of the world if the rushee figures out where a rho chi is a sister as long as that rho chi is trustworthy and makes the rushee feel comfortable.
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