Well, I think everyone is entitled to privacy so I understand the mom being mad that her daughter was snooping in her stuff. And, I think the girl should remain grounded because that was breaking a rule.
However, I think the mom needs to make it clear that the punishment is not a repercussion of the girl's curiosity. She needs to let her know that sexuality is natural, and either give her the talk about the birds and the bees or the Web address for Greekchat... I'm sure she'd learn A LOT here!
