[KappaKittyCat]

I love Dan Savage! I usually agree with him, and this time I do 100%. I can understand why the father didn't want to deal with this issue-- that's more of a mother/daughter topic. But it is not immoral or bad parenting for this mother to have a vibrator and/or dildo. It's a little wrong for the daughter to have used her mother's, but she probably doesn't know any better, much less think that her mom actually uses it. I know that when I was 14 I found all sorts of stuff in my parents' drawers that even now I shudder to think about, and I still insist that my folks don't have sex.

Point being... that's going to be one heavily repressed girl if they don't do something about it right now. Her dad should talk to her about it too, because I imagine that it's eating him up inside and he probably has trouble looking at her.

Also... I doubt she was doing this in the living room. My bet is that she was in her bedroom, probably with the door closed (even if nobody was home). If the door was closed, they should have knocked before coming in for that very reason.