No, You never Know!
I was at a Chapter function one night and several Brothers came to me and were talking about a New Assoc, who was booted!
They ask me to intervine (sic) and I did!
I asked a question of some of the Senior Actives and they said it was none of my business as they ran the Chapter! I was not kind! Precious thread.
Well to cut to the chase, he was a stalker! Had done it several times! His Dad came into my shop and chewed my ass out!
I gave them the advice, if it was a proven fact, then so be it but do not keep it a secret from me or any of the of the other Brothers Alum or Active. We do not have this young man in our Fraternity today!
One never Knows, the only thig you can do is go by insttincts and do the best you can!