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Originally posted by three2tango
I had a very interesting experience yesterday. I went shopping at the Saks outlet and as I was leaving a girl pulled up in a car next to me and started saying, "Hey baby, you look good mmmmmm." That is all she got out before I got in my car. I didn't even look at her. Then, I got into my car and drove around the building to the Michael's craft place. I got out of my car and about 10 yards before I got to the door she came by again. "Hey can I get your phone number baby?" "You look so damn good." I was very uncomfortable.
So here is the deal, this made me very angry. First of all because of her barbaric behavior and second of all for thinking I was a lesbian. I mean if she had come up to me and hit on me in a bar I would have just politely said, "No thanks, I am straight." I felt very violated and now I understand why men would have a tendency to get very violent when this happens to them.
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Well I don't think it was so much that she was a lesbian but how she aggressively pursued you. Do you think you give off a gay vibe? Just asking because that'swhat you titled the thread.
Anyway, the same thing (more or less) has happened to me a few times. Once I was sitting in a 7-11 parking lot (VERY drunk) and drinking a bottle of water to try to sober up and drive home. This chick came up to my window and was like "Girl, I love the way you drink that water, you make it look delicious." I was drunk, so I cursed her out, lol. The other time I was at a club and this chick flung her arms around me and proclaimed that she was taking me home with her so she could take pictures of me (yeah, kinda creepy, lol).
I take these experiences mildly enough. I mean I don't want ANYone pursuing me with that kind of aggression, guys OR girls. I am comfortable enough in me sexuality to not be offended when a chick hits on me, I just let them know. Besides, with my over-inflated ego, anyone that hits on me only serves to reinforce my self-admiration, lol.
