Lana,
I was trying to balance it out- I am not the best at giving folks the benefit of the doubt. You sound like you have some underlying issues is all. Maybe you just use GC to vent, I do not know, but I can only judge by what I see here and it is overwhelmingly negative. If you're not coming back to GC then I waste my time writing this, but I do wish you good luck, and gave my opinion with the best of intentions.
I still think that complaining and being so down on yourself and your life 24/7 is not a healthy way to live, and doesn't facilitate any kind of real hapiness. In your posts that I have seen, I always read about your problems, never about your attempts to address or solve them, and you just always have a hopeless air. I truly hope you can overcome that.
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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