PrettyNPearls you and your family are in my prayers on this day and at this difficult hour for you.
I pray for our Heavenly Father to give you strength for you and your son.
As it was stated earlier, it is okay to cry. Crying heals the wounded heart. My Nana was also 85 when she made her transisition on September 1, 1998. I have learned to remember the good times we had together (I was her favorite of course
) and I hold on to the things she taught me as a child and as a woman.
Though her body is gone, her Spirit will live on in you and all the memories you cherish.
Peace & Blessings to you and your family.