kaidi06: to answer your question, I would say that IN GENERAL , if you date a man that one of your sorority sisters dated, you are asking for trouble.

However, there are also situations where it might be okay. For example: if your soror has moved on to a different guy & he's the love of her life & they're engaged, then it might be okay. This is a really tough situation to judge without knowing the context.

But I stand by my words that generally speaking, "it's asking for trouble".