[shadokat]

I don't necessarily think that the shameless plugs make the PNM feel uncomfortable, but imagine that you're a member of your sorority at XYZ school, and one of the PNMs on here is going through recruitment. You, wanting to be positive and promote your sorority say "Go ABC!!!". Now, when the PNM visits the house, she likes it, and maybe wants to go back. But for whatever reason, your chapter there cuts her. Now, you're saying oh, I'm so sorry they didn't invite you back, I'm sure you're a great girl, maybe there was an NPC error, etc. But the reality of the situation is that maybe your chapter didn't think she fit!! And you're undermining them by saying "Go ABC!!".

Just a thought...