Hi Sarah
I have been surfing the Greek chat boards for a few months but this is my first post. As an Alpha Gam alum, I was really touched by your story, and felt I had to make a comment. I know this may be hard, but please don't take it personally that you weren't invited to the Alpha Gam preference party. We have 8 chapters in Alabama, which means every year we have a lot of legacies (the sister, daughter, granddaughter, etc., of a member) going through rush at each of these schools. It may sound unfair to non-legacies, but every sorority gives some priority to their legacies. This may be what happened at USA. The girls must have really liked you since you were invited to the earlier parties, and may have wanted to invite you to preference, but may have had enough legacies to fill their quota. I hope everything works out for the best, whether you join Chi Omega or not. I wish you the best of luck in your college years.
Monica
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