I want to agree with the first part of the Thread....Shameless Plugs can be really really nerveracking for the PNM. I never went through formal recruitment, but I knwo that the process is very very nerve-racking! I also know that every organization at every school is very very different. I know other chapters of my sorority that are very different from the one that I am in and if I would have gone to that school I would have never fit into that chapter at all. It is different for everyone and everyone needs to be respectful of that! My 2cents anyways