Lana -
Try and stick it out. There are a lot of people who wanted to do what you are doing, and YOU were chosen instead of them. You are special!! So make the most of it!
If you don't have a car, try to get used to mass transit - I swear it's not that horrible. Take a day or so just to get used to the town by yourself - you won't feel at home till you do.
Everyone sometime in their life is going to have to learn to do things on their own. You are luckier than you know to get to do it at this age. Some women go from their parents' house, to their sorority house, to their husband's house, and are never alone. Then they find themselves 40, divorced and completely clueless as to how to function. If you learn how to be with yourself and not hate it, it does a lot for you in terms of not putting up with crappy friendships or relationships. You have you - and you are great - so why would you deal with crap just to not be alone?
Give nationals a call and see if they can put you in touch with any alums in the area. The nearest alum chapter is in Tampa Bay but there HAVE to be some ASA's in the northern part.
Take care sis
. You can do this - trust me!!