I like how someone put it: greek life is one of those things where you get what you put in. If you don't wanna party, you don't have to, there are plenty of other rewarding things to do in a house.

I've gone to parties and been sober (as either designated driver, or when I realized I've been drinking for the last 3 days in a row). So if it's drinking that you're affraid of, don't sweat it, you can still have a fun time at a party.