I can feel what the author of the poem is saying. I know too many women who do not have a problem being sloppy seconds. They allow men to make fools out of them. Men and Women are different creatures. They do their thing because of the physical and women because of the mental. I hate that fact but it is true of most men. I feel the author is telling women- if we as a group stop allowing men to have their cake and eat it too- then more families would be together. Of course you cannot stop someone from cheating but most women think they are special when someone elses man wants them. YOU ARE NOTHIN BUT A STUPID FOOL! Its not you- its the free AS*S. I have always wondered why people allow themselves to be used in that way.
People in general need to respect relationship- not just marriages but any relationship. I take second place to NOOOOO Woman. I let it be known- I am Wayyyy to damn good.
Single parent families are killling the African American Community.
Women also need to stop thinking they can change the man. He will do the same thing to you he did to his ex.
One of my close friends use to say " I am not fixin him up for no other B*T*CH! "