Dinner exchanges are great... we used to do those a lot. If you invite a smaller fraternity (one that maybe doesn't have a cook), they can all come over and they do because they want a good home-cooked meal. It's easier to really get to know one another without loud music and alcohol!
Also, participate in all the philanthropies you are invited too. Other chapters usually notice that support. Invite everyone to your philanthropy.
What about homecoming or Greek Week? Are you paired with a fraternity for those? Usually several of our girls would end up dating boysi n the chapters we were paired with.
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